Leona O'Callaghan waived her right to anonymity so O'Dea could be named in reporting the case. Woman stands in public wearing only underwear as part of ThisIsNotConsent He then had sex with her in his bedroom while his mother was in the sitting room. She said O'Dea was the first man who told her he loved her and said that he manipulated her into believing "the disgusting things you did to me, you did out of love".